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    Here are the stories of three professional women and each one’s experiences in their unique line of work…   A prostitute is simply defined as a person (male or female) who has consensual sex for money.   Call girls (Escorts) are prostitutes who...

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Sex For Money

Here are the stories of three professional women and each one’s experiences in their unique line of work…

 

A prostitute is simply defined as a person (male or female) who has consensual sex for money.

 

Call girls (Escorts) are prostitutes who work primarily via telephone to make appointments with clients, hence the term “call girls”. Call girls may be employed by an escort agency, and advertise in the newspaper or via internet. Call girls may come go the clients or invite a client to come to them. The difference between call girls and “street walkers” is that when employed, they undergo background checks for drug issues, arrests etc. Usually they are more educated, attractive and youthful. Some services provided by call girls include sexual intercourse (vaginal, anal), oral stimulation, manual genital stimulation, mild domination, fetishes, striptease, (erotic) massage, and use of sex toys. Sometimes girls are called not for sex but for companionship, such as accompanying their client to social events.

 

Confession of Czech Escort  Street love in the center of Prague costs from 20 to 100 Euro. Brothel services are roughly 40 Euro for a half hour. Call girls like me charge a minimum 30 Euro per hour.  
Martina consented to talk about her work as a prostitute. She became a prostitute when she was 19 years old, and decided to give this interview to warn young girls about everything she went through, including violence and humiliation.
Martina was still in school, and holding down a job to help pay for expenses. She eventually lost her job, and things at home with her parents were very strained. She decided to leave home. Her money soon ran out, and she responded to an ad in the newspaper: “Job for beautiful girls. Big earnings.” When she came to the nightclub, Martina understood what the job was, and she got scared and left. Unfortunately she couldn’t find another job, so she went back to the nightclub and began having sex for money.
– The owners assured me that no one will make me do anything I didn’t want to. I had to work at least 3-4 days per week. But in order to earn more I agreed to work almost every day. Usually my individual schedule was made up in advance. I worked from 8 pm to 4-6 am. Then I had to go to school. It was horrible, I felt completely exhausted in class. I wanted to sleep so badly. The only good thing was that I could afford to buy anything I wanted.

 

- Do underage girls work in clubs? 
- It's so easy for the club owners to get young girls to work. They don’t care at all that they are ruining lives and breaking the law. 

 

- Did your classmates know what you were doing? 
- I said I was working as a bartender. However, some suspected that I was lying. Maybe they saw my photos on the Internet. I even asked my “boss” to give me a contract to prove I was working as a bartender. I even took a picture at the bar and put it in my profile on the social networking website we all were members of. I was always afraid that someone I knew would see me in club. I was always scared that someone like my father would go to a club like that, and I would run into him.

 

- How much prostitutes earn? 
- Well, approximately 120 thousand crowns [$7,000] a month. One can earn an office worker’s monthly salary in one night. It’s hard to walk away from that kind of money. And still, after three years, I managed to break away from this vicious circle. I met my present boyfriend and fell madly in love with him. I told him everything, and decided to leave the job for him.

 

- Do you communicate with your ex friends? 
- I try to avoid the places where I can meet them, even by accident. Though sometimes I want to write a text message to someone, or an email, and ask “How are you?”

 

- What is your attitude towards prostitution now? 
- From an ethical point of view it’s horrible. Yet from a financial one, not so bad. You have to consider the health problems that every prostitute faces sooner or later. For example, I will never be able to have children. Other girls got hooked on drugs out of hopelessness. When I walk down the street I am constantly haunted by the feeling that everyone is staring at me and thinking that I’m a whore. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve heard “You are a whore, so you will do what I want”. I was always afraid to stumble across some maniac, or be forced to do some disgusting sexual act, and there was constant competition among all the girls. Sometimes it got really ugly.

 

- This is terrible! 
- Often when I went to client’s home he would tear off his clothes and very roughly throw me on the bed. I screamed that he should take his money back and let me go, but he wouldn’t. I had to make arrangements with the taxi drivers that drove us to the clients. I paid them extra so that they didn’t leave right away but waited a few minutes. And if I screamed, the taxi driver would come and bang on the door. I managed to get out of the house that way, but when I came back to the club owners with no money they’d make my life miserable.

 

- How was the income divided between you and the club? 
- 50/50; half to me and half to the club. Usually if you go to a client’s apartment, you get 2000 crowns [$120]. If I agreed with the client directly, without the club knowing, I’d do it for 1500. I got to keep all the money.

 

- What was the relationship between the girls like?  
- They fought a lot. We’d all fight over the clients that came in.  I’d fight hard for his attention. I tried to turn them on so they’d pick me, no matter what it took. Other girls hated me for that. But I get it. Some of them had kids, not one, sometimes two or three, and prostitution was their only income. 

 

- What kind people often come to the club? 
- Mostly old people! For example, one of them celebrated his eightieth birthday in the brothel. A lot of tourists come as well. I had a lot of foreign regulars – over ten people who came to spend some time with me.

 

Street walkers are prostitutes who find their clients on public streets. Sex services are performed in a client’s car, secluded alleys, the sex-worker’s apartment, or a hotel room. Street walkers are usually under a pimp’s supervision and protection. There are certain streets that belong to a certain pimp and only his/her girls can work there. There is a high risk of contracting STDs since condoms are rarely used. Prostitutes are often arrested and some of them get locked up for long periods of time. Girls are sometimes illegally trafficked to different countries and held as sexual slaves working in brothels or on the street.

 

Interview with a street walker

 

Tell me about how you began working?

- When my mom died I started doing this, then I fell in love with a drug-addict and tried drugs for the first time. I’d shoot up all the time. I started selling, and ended up in jail. Now I just drink. First I worked with a friend, and when she overdosed and died I started working alone. I never slept with a pimp and never will. I need freedom.I have a lot of regulars. Sometimes I even run a tab. They always pay me eventually.

 

How often do you get tested for STD’s?

- What is your problem? I am a hooker with eight years experience, I didn’t die from drugs, or in jail, or from drinking and getting beaten up – and suddenly you assume I’ll die from syphilis or HIV?! I have standards – only with a condom. Otherwise I don’t do anything. Recently one of my regulars took me out and decided he didn’t want the feel of a condom. I totally refused, so he kicked me out of the car and pushed me in the mud. I spent half the night walking back to town covered in dirt. If I ever see him again, I’ll scratch his eyes out.

 

Porn stars are the actors and actresses that star in the adult films. Actors come into the porn industry willingly, and go through the casting process.  Some of them sign contracts with studios all over the world. Porn stars’ incomes depend on demand and popularity.

 

Aisha, porn actress I am from a conservative family. When I moved away from home, to the city, I figured out where to go and who to talk to, and that’s how it started. I started stripping, and then I went to swinger parties, had fun, and met people who wanted me to star in porn films. I like trying new things, and this seemed interesting. I was shooting in France, Czech Republic. Everything was happening so fast, so much fun, and life was beautiful! I was living freely, I had different “sponsors”, and a person who served me like a slave, he took me everywhere. We didn’t have sex, he just worshipped me and I used him for whatever I wanted. I’d call him in the morning and tell him to bring me something to eat, or take me shopping. And he always did. I went on a date and he waited for me the whole time and then took me home. Back then I didn’t even think I’d be able to fall in love with anybody. Sometimes I even forgot the faces of the people I had sex with in the films, we’d bump into each other at the club and I couldn’t remember if I ever slept with the person or not. My boyfriends back then — some of them hated the porn, some didn’t, but if they wanted serious relationships I told them it wasn’t going to happen because I valued my freedom. Women in porn love their freedom. They love to make their own rules, but they also love strong men. That’s why relationships are difficult. They are either kept women or they have business relationships, the husbands the producer and the wife is the actress. I am proud of my job. There are girls who do this for money, and they are so sad. I didn’t have that problem, I clearly understood that it was just a part of my life, a means to an end, and it will be over soon. Denis and I met at a party. We had sex but it was casual, and we were both sleeping with other people.  Eventually I developed strong feelings for him. We both wanted something else, a different life. I quit porn. I changed radically. I went back to school, and now I’m an office manager. I no longer feel the need to party or to have sex with random people. I love being in love.

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